Which is why it can be challenging to bring up the topic of incontinence or news about the lack of control of bladder leaks with your loved ones. Taking the first step as a patient or as a caregiver is very important.
Take comfort in knowing you are not alone and while this condition isn’t normal, there are care options available to reduce the impact it has on your life and the people you care about.
Here are some signs to take note of: If a person is suffering with incontinence, you may have seen them rushing to the bathroom in great distress or noticed there is always a lot of laundry to do. They have disturbed sleep patterns and/or show resistance to go out due to concerns about finding a bathroom in time.
Aging aside, past medical history is also a big factor in why so many of us have incontinence. People who’ve had surgeries in the past, new or expectant mothers, children and individuals who have disabilities and neurological disorders with reduced mobility and access to bathrooms are also constantly dealing with simple tasks like taking them self to the bathroom - every single day.
As a result, people become depressed and stop going out to socialize because of fear of embarrassing themselves, and lack of awareness on how to manage a leaking bladder or urinary incontinence.
Here are a few things to bear in mind before you have ‘the talk.
At the Doctor’s.
When you are the doctor - you might have questions about the condition itself
Understand what kind of incontinence you have - there are several types, we cover the most common ones in this blog post (LINK)
Behavioral (bathroom finders, bladder diaries, and reminder applications that can be accessed through computers or smartphones) or medical options?
Pressure test each option to see which might be most beneficial - consider costs, time, impact on quality of life of yourself and/or your caregiver and family.
Awareness is key. Educate yourself and your immediate circle of care.
Learn if there are organic ways to naturally prevent or reduce the impact of this type of incontinence and how fast you will need to act.
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